When You are Called to Blog – A Guest Post

I am so very pleased to introduce you to my very first guest writer here at Milk & Honey Faith.  Her name is Carmen Brown and she blogs over at Married By His Grace.  I met Carmen the very first week I started blogging and we’ve grown to be the dearest of friends.  We’ve had countless conversations about the tremendous responsibility we have by being called to blog, and have since prayed together, learned together, and even started running a Facebook Group together for Christian writers called “By His Grace Bloggers“.  Please take a moment to kick up your feet and read about how Carmen started out on this precious calling we call Blogging.


When You are Called to Blog


If you asked me two years ago “What’s a blog?” I probably would’ve looked at you and said, “I don’t know, what’s a blog?” Blogging was never an interest or even considered as a titled position to me.


I was just like all the other 83% of internet users that found blogs to be the fifth most reliable source of honest internet review. Majority of the time I couldn’t even tell the difference between a company site and a blog.


It wasn’t till my sister told me about the many homemaking Christian blogs she followed for: recipes, homeschooling tips, and for encouragement as a stay at home mom, that I learned what a blog was.


It was at that time, she reminded me of how much I use to write and asked why didn’t I consider creating a blog?


Although, flattered that she thought I could start a blog, I immediately answered with no interest but continued to tell her about how I had been writing consistently for the past two years because the Lord kept telling me to “Just write.” I just didn’t know for what. All my writings had been put onto a old laptop that was just staying between me and God.

Quickly after that conversation with my sister, I was secretly intrigued, so I got onto Pinterest, the site that she said she always found blogs on, and I began researching. I would search: “What is a blog? What are they for? How do I start a blog? Who reads blogs?”

Read Carmen Brown's guest post about being called to blog. It's not something to be taken lightly. She talks about her heart for the Lord and fellow believers who are also writers. Learn about her eBook written for Christian Bloggers.

After months of researching, my husband nonchalantly said one day, “Start the blog.”  

“What?!” I exclaimed.  

He replied, “I said start your blog, it’s time.”

Although I had my husband’s support, I struggled with it. I knew the blog would only be about the priorities in my life which was: God, marriage, and parenting. But who was I? Who was I to write of these things to the public when I was still learning it all myself?


Because of my husband’s constant encouragement, I finally brought myself to start a blog but when it came to building the blog I still had no idea what I was doing. YouTube and Pinterest became my best friends. I was constantly on both sites trying to build a blog, to understand blogging, and to develop a connection with bloggers.

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Behind all the research and attending free webinars weekly of how to start a blog, I felt like I finally had an understanding of what blogging was and could be and so, Married by His Grace was created.


Married by His Grace is a blog that I desire to bring inspiration and hope to wives and mothers that is working to build a home based off of the word of God. A place where my testimonies and my own trial and error could be relatable and encouraging to any mom that is raising godly children.


Just months after starting Married by His Grace I felt overwhelmed and as if there was a void in what I was creating. After seeking God; sadly, as a last resort, He showed me it was no longer about how to develop a successful blog or about how many read the words that I posted but it was about what He had asked me to do just two years prior. “Just write.”  


It was time to put everything else aside and “Just write.”


Reading my bible daily became a priority and connecting with a community of other christian bloggers became a necessary resource for my blogs wellness.


I was waking up every morning excited to connect and to learn.


I was soaking up every bit of information, encouragement, and post about Christian blogging.  I engaged in anything that could uplift me as a Christian Blogger.


He was drawing me in to create a ministry that I did not know I had within me.


I feared myself with the word ministry so much that I was not able to see my blog becoming a ministry.  I did not think I was capable of it.


But then in the word of God, He showed me ministry as:


“And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers, to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ”    Ephesians 4:11-13


The vision of unity between Christian bloggers that was building a blog to spread the word of God from place to place, country to country, began to develop into a passion for me.  To think that I was on the same team (which is the body of Christ) with all the other Christian bloggers in this world writing to God’s people, was a remarkable vision to me.  That vision alone encouraged me to continue blogging many times.  The verse reminded me that He equipped me as He had prepared my heart and me as a writer the past two years.  Those two years of writing was a time of intimacy and training for what He had called me to create.  A blog that was being built from His mercy and grace.


Shortly after I received the revelation, I came across a statistic about bloggers that nearly broke my blogging heart.


85% of bloggers fail and 50% of those bloggers fail within their first six months.


Then it became more real for me after reading, “Religion, Spirituality” genre is ranked as the fifth most written about niche in blogging.


This is when my writings, prayers, and focus began to be shared with encouraging new Christian bloggers.  To hopefully reach that one person and encourage them to not give up in what God has called them to do.


Quickly after, By His Grace Bloggers Facebook group for women Christian bloggers was created.  Natalie and I lead the group with prayer, encouragement, and passion.  All characteristics which God has used in our own ministries and now in the ministry of building a group that is intimately known as Grace Girls.


As a passion to serve in the Christian Bloggers community, By His Grace We Blog, Christian Blogging 101’ eBook was born.  It’s an eBook written specifically for soon to be, new, or experienced Christian based bloggers.  The eBook is to guide you through as you create yourself as an established Christian blogger.

The eBook takes you step by step of: seeking God through your blogging, what to do before launching your blog, cultivating your blog into a ministry, how to use Pinterest for the benefit of blogging, monetizing from your blog, branding, networking, affiliate marketing, and much more.

To continue to learn more about By His Grace We blog, you may read the eBook description here.


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Carmen Brown is the creator of Married by His Grace blog. She actively writes to women who are desiring to build their home with the word of God. Her passions involve staying connected with her family, drinking an immense amount of coffee daily, and developing content that will help and encourage new Christian Bloggers. You can connect with Carmen on her blog, Instagram, and Pinterest.









Thank you for reading along and I hope you all enjoyed this post as much as I did.  Carmen has a tremendous heart for the Lord and her sisters in Christ.  Remember to stop by at her blog to say hello.

Thank you,


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  • Amen-Amein!! God Bless All my Sisters and Brothers in Christ Jesus ( Yeshua ) and Your Families and Friends!!

    Love Always and Shalom ( Peace ), YSIC \o/


  • I’ve been so encouraged by the facebook group and also by a few people, and now you, saying to just write. I also can get so caught up in everything else there is to do, that I lose my focus and it becomes a drain instead of a joy. Lovely to hear your journey.

    • Thank you Lizzy! That is so encouraging to read. Sometimes we can wonder if what we do is making an impact. Your kind words are reassuring!

  • These words hit my heart like a ton of bricks, as I felt I related to every single last sentence on this page. Thank you for sharing this! I have felt the call, have felt the anxieties surrounding that call, and have held myself back with those anxieties. This was a really encouraging read for me! Thank you!!

  • I really enjoyed reading this guest post and am glad I found this blog! I am in the process of getting my blog off the ground, and have struggled with the process. Everything I read says that guest posts are a great way to network with other bloggers and spread the word about your blog. This is a perfect example.
    My blog is also a Spirit-driven, God-lead thing. It is refreshing to find others who share the calling and vision of encouraging other Christian women!
    Blessings to you!

  • Thank you so much for the encouragement! This post is 100% what I needed. I was sitting today thinking about my own God given calling to blog, write music, and Christian books- feeling quite inadequate. Why would God ask me to write? I have had this calling for the past three years, and have been slowly opening up to the idea of blogging. Over the past several weeks, I believe God is telling me to start now. I have been researching the best ways to begin blogging and have come across many great Christian blogging sites that are used to encourage new bloggers. Your post by far has been the most inspiring. I am looking forward to seeing how God can use me, in a greater way, for Him. Thank you again!

  • Thank you for this! I am in the very early stages of my Bible study based blog and will definitely be looking to both you and Carmen for guidance.

    • Dearest Andera,
      Please let us know when you are launched! It’s so exciting to meet one of God’s anointed and we’d love to bring you encouragement!